Once mixed, grab a handful and squeeze into as solid a mass in your fist. When you place it on a hard flat surface there should be no sagging whatsoever. This is referred to as 0(zero) slump. As to density of mix , I personally like to keep as many 'fines" as possible, but do omit the coarser grains although I think 2mm as a max is sufficient. All clean ups generally require diamond abrasives.
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