Hi JSandSO
Forgive my ignorance of your type of work
Is this machine just a machining center, like an ordinary metal working machine?
If so, why not just create toolpaths with something like OnecncXP? Post about your special requirements in the Onecnc forum, and see if the tech support, or other users, would have some timely advice for your situation.
First you get good, then you get fast. Then grouchiness sets in.
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