I read a recommendation that switching to a "bearing collet nut" would eliminate the worry of over- or under-tightening the standard nut.
I've found some manufactuers, but no discussion of how it works, or how it is used in practice.
One that I looked at had "Lock" and "Unlock" markings, suggesting that it doesn't use threads to secure the collet, but perhaps a cam.
Can someone please light me up here? Thank you.