Too bad there is no way to change the schematic image to the first post in this thread - it is wrong.
I did not find any manual on-line for the 5 port solenoid I chose to use, hence only when I got it and tried I found out it cannot be used in this application.
So I am changing to the one which was recommended by maxspongebob 3 ports 2 position 24V (my controller system uses 24v) .
Final (I hope) diagram is attached.