I presume you have the parameters in a file.
From memory, I had to enter P0900 and P0901 parameters manually and then I could load via the serial port. (Special Parameters go from 0900 to 0932)
My machine settings was 4800 E 7 bits 2 stop bits.
It appeared to me that loading parameters worked fine with 3 wire but programs needed 5. I could be wrong.
I used Realterm for communications. It tells you what the machine replies. Need to set as shown
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