I use a 36 if it's a through hole but back off to a 35 for blind holes. 90% of what I do are my own projects or products so I'm not constrained by other's specifications. From what I read on this forum, this is a luxury most of you don't enjoy.
I'm using 10 to 12% coolant concentration which I think plays a big role with small taps in Alum. I also spot drill anything under .125.
Before you turn your shop upside down just try the spiral point, I think that will make the difference. Some say the form tap will work without drilling a hole first.
Vern