The stiffness aside...
It's interesting that EG tends to quell vibration because the epoxy represents a dampener and the granite or aggragrate represents a suspended mass--in that each piece of aggregate is a weight suspended by a dampened spring, the epoxy.
I noticed somewhere in this thread that EG seems to do very well overall dampening, but the first initial one-shot event, it doesn't seem to do as well as metal. Could it be that it's not stiff enough to transmit enough of the shock through a heavy enough area?
I wonder where the line lies between stiffness and dampening. Adding glass fibers might make a stiffer part, to better control the the first bang, but it might make the EG part ring more. They might find one day, that adding chopped fiberglass might be good, but only if it's not too long.
It woulds seem that the weight of the aggregate would affect how well the EG dampens as well as the flexibility of the epoxy. Epoxy really isn't all that flexible, but compared to aluminum oxide, it is.
If would seem that the expansion characteristics of the filler, as well as the epoxy would affect the stability. It seems that insulators tend to be stable, like glass, they make telescope mirrors with, and often metals tends to be quite lively, perhaps except for Inconel.
It would be interesting to do different tests with different hardness epoxies to find what's good to dampen the vibration that a milling machine creates.
There might be other aggregates that are heavier, that might work better than others too. Aluminum oxide is quite hard, and stable, but I wonder if there is anything else that's more dense.
[It reminds me of Sorbothane, which is made of durometer/firmness to specifically target a specific frequency.]
Sorry to be so long. You all have me thinking about this stuff, and my cat and roomate don't seem get enthused about epoxy granite : )