It is possible to use the cheap chinese scales with 50 samples/sec. Not all support this mode but many do (and I can't tell you which do or dont... all of mine do, but they have different sequencing to get there)... the readings are reliable if you digitally filter them... And there are lot of ways of doing cheap DRO displays... as long as you don't expect to buy one off the shelf...
Here is mine (or the breadboard set up for it) under development, using a cheap VFD display from a POS terminal (5GBP off eBay!)
If you're in Europe why not come and visit the UK CNC Community at http://www.mycncuk.com