I think the problem with using the back end of the spindle is that it is actually the back end of the hydraulic chuck drawbar so it moves when the chuck opens. My lathes warn against attaching any stops to this location.
The only way I have ever figured out is to build a bracket off the back of the machine and attach a stop to this. The stop is just a length of bar with a plug that just fits inside the spindle mounted on a bearing. This way the stop can rotate with the spindle even though the bar is fixed.
An open mind is a virtue...so long as all the common sense has not leaked out.