Sounds to me like your loader isnt calling End of Bar consistently. Sometimes the switch that trigger EOB wears out.
If your remnant is too short its a loader issue. Its not calling end of bar when it should for some reason.
Your collet slipping wouldnt create a short remnant, material chaning in size would create galling or runout, but not short bar ends, and too much oil? all bar feeders now days are flooded with hydraulic oil to create a viscious barrier so the bar isnt rubbing on the tube, so thats not it either.
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