First of all I would say not to use a laptop to do the job of a desktop, they are not the same. Older laptops don't have the speed required, some cables are not the same, others would argue this point but this has been my experience. You can buy IDE parallel port cards to plug into your desktop. A way to check your laptop pp is to connect it to an old printer to see if the pp will work or not, but I would not use a laptop to run a cnc machine other than a 3d printer or something small like that. Not trying to frustrate you any further, it's just your better off using a desktop, one that was built with win XP or later. You might have to change some settings in Mach3 as well, hope this helps.
Jeff's CNC Plasma Cutting