I don't know why you think you should be the loser in this.
I have had the same experiences with both bad packaging and UPS's 'delicate' handlers, Although I think in this case the majority of the blame is with the stupid shipper, I have gone back to ebay sellers with similar bad shipping habits and got everything from a full refund to partial re-imbursment.
I had one ship a 60lb motor in a cardboard box with absolutly nothing else in the box. Of course it was smashed up pretty good.
He paid me back in full.
I would at least send him an email with the photo's of the damage.
Al.
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