The ballscrew that I linked to on ebay has a flange with mounting holes already. Make an attachment of some sort to your moving gantry. You really only need one ballscrew for the x axis. But you can use 2 if you'd like. I don't see any added benefits and it cost much more (one more ballscrew with mounts, one more motor and one more driver). As for how to mount ballscrews, you need bearing on both ends. One end must be fixed to eliminate axial movements (there is a faq on ballscrews in this forum somewhere) Misumiusa makes the least expensive mounts that I can find anywhere...but they still run over $100. This is why I recommented slides with built in ball screws for your y and z axis. The motors can be mounted directly to the ball screws using 'lovejoy' type couplings. Just match the size of the milled end of the ballscrew to the size of your motor shaft.
One the y rail there appears to be some type of motor. You can probably remove it and mount your own motor. I'm not 100% sure. I've bought several slides to experiement with on ebay, and most of them have real standard motor mounts. If not you may have to make one out of metal or plastic...not real hard
Yes you can use turbocad, but I think you still need a cam software. I'd start with something free until you have had time to read through this forum and find what's best for you.
As far as laptops, I think I've heard that some people have trouble with their parallel ports for some reason. If you are this far, then you are already ahead of me
Please take this advice.....CNC is great fun. I'm the excitable type and once I'm into it, I tend to dive in head first. As you can see from my profile, I've only been around for about 6 weeks. I've managed to spend $$$$ on dumb purchases that doesn't work for my needs. I only made those links to give you ideas. Browse through this forum, and think real hard before you spend your hard earned money.