After looking through your photos
If the HN25-150-24 powers your stepper drivers , I would use the 24V version of the relay board so the stepper driver power supply can power the relay coil
I will look for the circuit diagram of your BOB I have to find the connections that need to be connected to the relay board
once I have double checked the relay board I will post the wiring diagram to connect the BOB , relay board and spindle speed control
John