I don't have an excel sheet formula; wouldn't know how to do one. But here is one approach.
You are power limited and also probably lacking rigidity. Don't worry about trying to go as fast as you 'should' be going based on your material and cutter size. This, more or less automatically, reduces the chance of burning a tool, it allows for, maybe, a deeper cut and a faster feed, both of which are conducive toward controlling chatter.
It is difficult to suggest how much slower but if you have a step pulley belt drive stay in the mid range, always taking into account of course that for some materials you may need to go slower, I have aluminum in mind in these comments. The reason for staying in the middle is you have more pulley area in contact with the belt so you can transmit more torque, sometimes your lack of power is not only lack in the motor b ut lack of driving ability.
And don't get too hung up on trying to find formulae to tell you what to do. Experiment, be systematic and take notes; eventually you will see patterns emerge.
An open mind is a virtue...so long as all the common sense has not leaked out.