I've had the 'misfortune' of being in business for myself my entire life and I have always done very well. I have never worked for anyone else since I was 18 and in college. This means I have never had things like medical, retirement and seniority provided by an employer so many people are afraid of losing when they contemplate starting a business of their own. I have always provided those things for myself so I'm used to it; it is my 'normal'.
Like everyone else, I have a family, obligations and I crave financial security. Were I employed by someone, had a family, house and was thinking about starting a business, I'd be nervous too. That 'bird in the hand' always seems to weigh more than twice as much as those two in the bush.:-)
Still, don't let fears stop your dreams; it can work out if you are careful. Never burn bridges behind you, start part-time while you keep your day job (and security) intact. You sleep 8 hours a day. Your day job is 8-hours Monday through Friday. That leaves 8 hours weekdays and 16 hours on weekends to work on your dream. Yes, figure on doing nothing but working and sleeping. Don't bother if you are not good with that because it will take that. 72 hours every week to get you towards your dream (well, maybe 40 realistically).
You have a good idea, it stands out and you are committed to putting in the time it deserves? Your effort and the market will judge its worthiness. If it's all good, the part-time income will equal, then exceed the day job income. Dump the day job and go pro only then. If it doesn't, hone your new skills until it does or until you discover you weren't meant for this. Know yourself, learn and know what you are good at.
Two friends, three stories:
Story 1) A good friend of mine (since deceased) but 15 years older than me worked for Hughes Aircraft as a EE in the '80s. We met professionally and my wife and I became close friends with him. He was thinking about retirement and starting a franchise business. He picked something like "MailBoxes R Us", invested his savings and moved from SoCal to New Mexico to start his new venture.
The whole thing was doomed from the start. He knew nothing about mailboxes; he was a EE after all. He threw everything he had and owned into it. He added pointless stress by moving away from the familiar to the unfamiliar. The biz lasted 2 years; long enough to bankrupt him.
Moral of the story? Three: Do or start from something you know something about. Your experience, education and skills are your tools. You use your tools to make living. Replace your tools for different ones if you must but do it one tool at a time.
If you play poker, you don't bet the deed on your property unless the hand you hold cannot be beaten. Keep perspective and be cautious about your saved money. Every time you put something in, you must see a good return. Throw everything in only when you hold a royal flush.
Starting a business is hard enough. It will take all of your attention and all of your effort. Anything that distracts you subtracts from what you have to give. Make sure you are centered, your wife is behind you and everyone knows what will be required as a sacrifice.
Story 2) This person I met through Hughes as well but this time their electronics division. Same situation, same time-frame but the guy was 10 years younger than me. Again, we became family friends. He was a cracker-jack electronics draftsman and CAD programs were appearing on the scene. His idea was to start a board layout business using CAD.
He rented a very nice tilt-up office space in an exclusive high rent industrial park area near Orange County airport. He had the technical knowledge and skills to run this business. He hired a lot of people, a few which were draftsmen he intended to train in CAD.
After his shop was up and running, he invited my wife and I to see his new operation. I still remember my impressions as I was given the tour. The lobby had granite tile floors. Glass doors with gold handles separated the lobby area from several conference rooms holding enormous teak conference tables. The executive offices were furnished with Koa executive desks, the best furnishings and the finest, most tasteful wool carpets.
The shop was in the back. It took up about 25% of the total square footage. There were some ratty drafting tables and two (2) PCs. That was it. The biz folded in less than a year.
Moral of the story? Just one: Know where the money is made. Hint: It's not made in the office. The best small companies I've been invited to see have the rattiest offices. All the machinery in the shop (>75% of total area) is new. No expense is spared on laboratory and test equipment. All assemblers and technicians have the best, latest tools and great workstations. You can eat dinner of off the shop floor. You worry about catching something infectious in the office though.:-)
Your start-up is not the place to resolve your ego issues. It is not the arena to put your ego on display. Doing so misuses resources that could better be used elsewhere. The office is the place where non-direct income work gets done. Remember; buff shop, crappy office.
Last story 3) These guys were acquaintances more than friends. They were in Minnesota and they worked for a medical equipment company. They had a good idea for some medical diagnostics equipment which is how I met them. They used our drives.
They moonlighted legitimately; their idea had nothing to do with their employer's product. Because they moonlighted, they called their venture "Lunar Radiation Inc". They worked all the time and they were dedicated and they did everything right. They had a buff production area and awful offices. They were bought out by GE and their company became the Lunar division of GE Medical.
Moral of that story? There isn't any. You do it right and there are no mistakes for anyone to learn from.
For me, I cannot think of a better way to have spent my professional life. It is always better to be a hungry dog without a collar than a well-feed dog wearing one. If the collarless dog is half-way smart, he won't even ever be hungry. The biggest advantage of working for yourself is the full freedom to pursue any dream that catches you. You don't have to answer to an employer who may not see what you see.
Mariss