mate, 5 letters spell it out O K U M A!! i did my time on mazaks and fanucs, but since i started my new job i have been on okumas since, theyre the most user friendly machine i have ever seen and operated. what machine are you looking at buying? i run a lathe (LB250T).
save the drama, spend the extra cash, and buy an okuma! i can't spend the time doing the pro's and con's of fanuc and okuma. but take my advice, buy the okuma (unless you have the budget to buy a HAAS!!!).
On the other hand, You have different fingers.