It's indeed a very glorious day
turns out the parallel port voltage was insufficient to properly control the Xylotex box. I always thought it was 'resonant frequency dampening' which was the problem, but it was still stuttering now and then as if it was jumping, or NOT GETTING SIGNAL.
Sure enough installed Mach 3 on a PC(had it running on a laptop before) I had sitting around with I think a 2GHZ Celeron. Stress tested it for 20 minutes and not a single jump or perceptible missing step. it was very obvious before.
made some resonant frequency dampeners out of MDF and cut 1/2" steel to fit in holes in the periphery of the wheel, and gained quite a bit of performance out of that too. CNC zone pays off, but it did take lots of investment in time. i feel the machine is 99% now in terms of operating capacity. thanks cnc zone