For a Machine build like you are doing you would be fine with DMM AC Servos or Delta the next step up would be Yaskawa, DMM will do everything you want to do and more at a very good price, would not consider any of the Chinese servos you are looking at, they have zero support and can't be considered for a build like you are doing
For Linear Rail Sizing and Ballscrew there is plenty of information that you can use from any of the Top manufacturers THK have lots if information
35mm Linear Rails would be a good starting point to check out the load rating that you will be expecting them to see and carry, there are only a few Chinese manufacture which have a brand name for Linear Rails and Ballscrews, TBI MOTION is in Taiwan and most likely the only one I would look at for a serious build like you are doing